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A lot of ladies don’t known this, a greater proportion of women want to marry great men, celebrities, authorities, maybe because of money, but the question is can you pay the price in marriage?
I have come to understand that so many great people hardly have time for their family; can you cope?
A lot of ladies will love to have been the wife of great men like Bishop Oyedepo Aliko Dangote etc, but do you know he hardly sleeps? He hardly has time for his wife?
But of course what everyone sees is that there is his wealth!
What of his attention?
A lot of ladies get to discover that money isn’t everything, when it is already late. A man who is globally relevant might not give you all the attention you need, what will keep you in those times is the love and passion you have for his vision and mandate and that brings me to this point. Marry a man whose vision you can carry.
Getting married to very great person is no child’s play. If you doubt me, ask their wives!
Many celebrities don’t spend up to three months in a year with their families. Can you cope with that, because money definitely can’t replace the presence of one’s loved ones.
The famous actor, Van Vicker, once confessed he barely has spend months with his wife in a year.
Many girls would wish to be married to Van, but how many can understand when he will have to stay away for long because of his dreams and ambition?
Personally, I have a mandate to reach out to 2 billion people before I die, to impact and influence a minimum of that amount before my time on earth is done.
God keeps using people to remind me of the need to choose a life partner wisely, because a mistake with that will affect dangerously my ambitions.
A man might be vision minded passionate, ambitious, and rich and handsome and you wish to marry him but truth is you can’t endure it.
It not by fantasizing about the beauty of love all day; if you are thinking of marrying a great man, be ready to pay a great tesk in marriage.
Myles monroe during his lifetime got over 800 invitations to speak in a year, you want to ask yourself how his wife managed to survive all of that?
It doesn’t end at marrying a man with a vision. You must understand that as time goes, that vision will explode and he might not have so much time for you. You need to understand and adjust.
I am not saying celebrities shouldn’t have time for their family in the name of their vision but believe me no matter how much they spare, it cannot be as much as an average man would spare.
No matter how great i become, I will always have time to be with my wife and family but I doubt it will be every now and then.
Can you manage a man’s greatness?
Money won’t change anything. Some ladies think when there is money, marriage is better. Money sure helps but a lot women that married rich and great men want divorce because they can’t cope with the burden of his purpose.
This article applies to both sex marry the person whose burden of purpose, you can carry.
Obateru Omolola is a student of Mass Communication at Rufus Giwa Polytechnic, Owo, Ondo State, Nigeria